What happens after we die?
Is it really the end? Do we cease to exist?
These are some of the many questions I get asked as a medium, and I would love to share what I believe happens when we die.
I look at death as a celebration, like a graduation ceremony that all your hard learning and lessons you have experienced over the course of your life has now paid off and you get to enter the next stage of your evolution.
I believe that your physical body is a vessel that allows you to experience life here on Earth, and that it houses your soul for you to have a human experience. The body itself is made up of a whole bunch of particles, just like the couch I am lying on as a type this. It is dense and heavy and cannot travel to any other dimensions. I believe the soul is eternal and ever lasting, and that in order for it to grow it has to experience life on different levels, and Earth being one of the planes to do so. So yes, I believe in reincarnation.
So, what happens when we die? I don’t believe the way we die changes necessarily the process of what happens, so I will talk about death in the general manner of whether you are 1 day old to 135 years old.
We get assigned our physical body and our soul travel to this body during the gestation period and fully merges with the physical body once the baby is born. From that moment your soul doesn’t leave your body until you die (unless you are astral travelling). So I believe that there is a cord that connects our physical body to our soul and when we die that cord is cut, and our soul goes into the spirit world (afterlife) and that part of us that dies is the physical body. You as a being are still there, you are now a form of energy and the only thing you are missing out on is the physical aspect of life, but you are there enjoying every aspect with your family and friends in an etheric body (energy).
All your memories and lessons you experienced are housed in your soul, and this includes all of the lifetimes you’ve had.
What’s beautiful is when we die, we are never alone, our family and friends all gather close and help us through the process, I believe this is the case even with an unexpected death of some sort (accident, murder, suicide etc…) the spirit people that belong to you know, and they begin to gather close, so by the time your soul cuts the cord to your physical body you are greeted by them. It brings me great comfort to know this.
Now when I have a client in-front of me or doing a demonstration the souls I bring through aren’t actually in spirit as their physical body. What happens is that they manifest as their physical body because that is how we recognise them. So when I describe what someone looks like, it’s not really what they look like in the spirit world, but they create themselves in that way because that is how we would recognise them. They do not need a physical body, the afterlife is not a dense place here like it is on earth. They are not restricted and confined to a physical body so they can be in several different places at the same time.
It is important for me as a medium to depict to you what your loved ones look like and how they are doing now that they are in spirit. They will refer to their physical attributes, but what’s beautiful is if your loved lost a limb or goodness forbid more than that, because your soul is not physical, when you are in the spirit world you have all of that back. So I will say something like “when they were living they are showing me that they lost their leg in a car accident, and now in the spirit world they would like me to tell you that they have that leg again and are now running” something along those lines depending on what it is they choose to pass on.
So I hope that kind of makes sense, and that it gives you a bit of an understanding of what may happen – of course nothing is certain, but this is my personal experience from the thousands of souls I’ve connected with.
What are you thoughts about what happens to us after we die?