Well read on to find out that you really are normal and how to get motivated.

Let’s face it, at some point or another we have all found a million and one excuses to not complete a task or give up because something was ‘too hard’.

Can you place yourself in that dilemma? Well I know I can, I think I have probably become a pro at procrastination and this is why I was inspired to write this.

With the modern world that we live in, everything has to happen so fast-paced. There’s always something new coming out that you have to learn when it comes to technology and social media, things don’t stay the same and constant. I’m sure I spend at least 10 hours or more on facebook, and I’ll use the excuse “my business requires a lot of social media interaction”. Well this is true, but it’s not really working when I’m spending countless hours scrolling down my own personal facebook feed. Is this sound familiar to you?

Well you’re not alone. There are so many of us in the same boat who get caught up in it all. It doesn’t have to be social media, I’ll use the excuse of “I’m too tired” and not go to the gym. I do believe as human beings we can be easily distracted or give up just before we are about to be successful.

Being positive and staying on track requires a lot of discipline and self-management. I’m not a huge fan of to-do lists but I understand their value. It gets you focused and you can see what you have achieved. However, if you’re like me, I’ll add to the to-do list other things that I’ve done to make myself feel good that I’ve done something. So really it’s not achieving anything!

So how do I get myself motivated? Well I’ve learnt that I have to show up in my life. I’ve learnt that I need to have discipline and stick to routines and strategies that work for me. In order for me to acquire abundance I have to understand how to create it.

I stick to a routine of showing up for the spirit world and myself. Being a psychic medium I have to take care of me. I start my day with my morning ritual of asking for miracles and being open to new opportunities from the universe. I sit in the power (a stillness where I bring the spirit world to me), and chant to raise my vibration. I’ll also pull out a guidance or affirmation card for the day. Now it’s on the days where I don’t do this that everything goes pear-shaped. Maybe I’m having a bad morning with the kids or I’m feeling lazy. Well I pay the price as I don’t become as proactive as I could as I’ve noticed that my mind is so easily distracted on those days.

I’m juggling motherhood and running a business, so I try my hardest to have discipline and keep my phone away from me when I’m with my children and dedicate a few hours to playing and spending time with them – let’s just say this is a working progress!

One thing I find really helps to keep me motivated on my dreams is that I have my vision board and goals written up and on display in my room. It really does help to remind me as to why I want this and snaps me out of my procrastinating mood. There really are some tasks that are just tedious and one thing I have learnt is to outsource. I don’t have to do everything myself, I can have others doing things for me. This cuts down my procrastination because I can spend time doing what I’m good at and enjoy doing.

As a psychic medium I read for people everyday offering guidance and insight on what lies ahead, and what I love is when positive unexpected outcomes are presented, or making someone aware of opportunities that may present themselves.

However, as much as this guidance is offered, it’s up to you to do the hard yards and make it happen. I really wish sitting on your bum twiddling your thumbs did that, but it doesn’t, well not for the majority of us anyway. It’s about being proactive and showing up in your life and having some discipline for yourself.

So find a routine you can do everyday to help start you off positively. You are the only one responsible for what happens to you. The world is going to keep on spinning no matter what you decide to do.

So let’s beat this procrastination dilemma and stick it to laziness and fear! Tell yourself “I am ready and receptive to be motivated and productive to achieve my goals and dreams” Make this your new mantra.

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I speak for myself, and I look back at the progression of my readings from when I first started to now, and there have been MANY learning curves. I always change up my style of how I work and invest in my development so I can offer the best service to my clients.  I look back and go, I cannot believe I used to say things like that, it’s a journey and one where I believe I’ll always continue to be the student. 

I have learnt so much about the spirit world and continue to learn everyday something new. One thing I have to make very clear is that there is a HUGE difference between mediumship and psychic, and that sometimes we can bring through a loved one in spirit but only be connecting on a psychic level.
Psychic, some may call it clairvoyance is when information is passed on about the person’s life journey (past, present, future), their lifes purpose and aspect of their spiritual journey.  Topics usually that are of interests are love, career and health for the majority of people.

Mediumship is when we prove the existance of the soul after death, and communicate with loved ones in the spirit world to pass on messages.  Evidence of that particular loved one should be given about their life when they were alive.  This could be what they look like, their personality, what they did, the relationship they are to you etc… but it should also include aspect of what they are doing in the spirit world and who they are with. 

Your loved one is spirit will give factual and evidential information, they are not psychics just because they are now in the spirit world. What’s important to remember is that as living people we have free will, and things can change even if you are given guidance on a psychic level, but your loved ones in spirit will not do this.

I often will ask in my readings, do you have any questions for your loved one, and a client might say ‘well can they tell me about this guy I’m going to meet?” the answer is NO. Yes they will be there to enjoy it with you when this all happens, but your loved ones do not have these answers.

I especially want to reassure you that your loved ones will be bringing loving and healing messages, not any messages that should create panic or worry within you. They cannot predict when someone is going to enter the spirit world, they are able to say something like ‘we are getting ready for nana to join us’ but they cannot give you a time frame or how it will happen. If you have ever received a message like that from me or from someone else, please pardon my lack of experience and understanding of my own practice, but this is a psychic message. It is not coming from your loved one.

This is exactly why I am soooooooooooooo passionate about making people aware of the difference and to set a standard for people to start taking responsibility for the words they choose to use when delivering a message.

I know that there are some clients that will hang on to my every word I have passed on, and the more I do this, the more it makes me realise how important my choice of words need to be. A loved one in spirit is just that, your loved one in spirit, and what they want is to communicate with you and have a chat about what they are doing in the spirit world, who they are with, how they are assisting you in your life and watching over you.

IF you receive anything that predicts the future from a loved one, IT IS NOT A MEDIUMSHIP message, it is PSYCHIC. However, if a loved one was to say, oh I see you’ve been looking at booking a holiday, well when you go I’ll be with you. That to me is not psychic. However, if they were to say, oh I see you’ll renovate the house, and get a dog and buy a blue car, that is psychic.

I love being able to give people guidance, I love the psychic part of my job, but I feel it’s important to understand how your reader is working and for you to leave feeling comfortable and reassured with what you have been given.

I’m in no way saying that I am perfect, I have my bad days just like everyone else, and this is my apology if you have ever felt like that leaving a reading with me.

So, I hope it will make you think carefully about how you are receiving messages from your loved one when you go and see a medium.

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I have to be honest and say that I used to think that spirits who had committed suicide where a darker energy to work with, however, I have very much changed my thoughts on this. Here is my public apology to anyone I may have offended with these previous comments and I hope that one day you connect with your loved ones.

So, here is what I believe, at the end of the day we are all going to pass. It’s the only thing guaranteed in life, the big question is how?

We all hope to pass by being asleep in our beds and drifting to the spirit world, however, that kind of passing is really not an option for a majority of people.
So what is so different about a suicide.
I have to touch on my personal experience on this one about my own journey and of those I have had the pleasure of meeting on the other side.

First I want to clear something up, suicide is not a selfish act, it is just another form of passing that is sudden or unexpected, just the same as a car accident. I don’t believe that there is a major difference between passing in an accident or taking matters into your own hands when it comes to how you will be welcomed or treated in the spirit world. The only difference is the healing journey in spirit is different, and suicides I do believe need more healing that someone who has had an accident for example.

So, why do people feel the need to take their own life. I can’t speak for everyone, but if I look at my own battle, it’s because life just gets so hard and there is that longing to be back to a place of peace and love. I want to approach this from a spiritual point of view. I think that people who have a battle with suicide, are rather sensitive souls, and they feel energies of people and the earth more than others may. On a subconscious level, I believe that these people have a clear recollection of what the spirit world is like and have a drawing to go back there. Life on Earth feels very heavy and complicated, and the soul has this pulling to be back ‘home’. I can honestly say that when I get myself in one of my episodes that there is nothing that makes me want to stay, it doesn’t matter about my kids or anything else of significance of my life, I just want to go. I have had many close calls, but for some reason it’s not quite my time and spirit always seems to intervene. It really is the only thing that stops me.

It can be hard for you to understand this concept if you yourself have never had suicidal thoughts, and I understand that it can be hard to comprehend that even the thought of leaving your kids behind to take your own life isn’t enough to stop someone from doing this. However, this is the reality of it. I do believe that these suicidal thoughts do not come from a conscious level, but more from a subconscious level, hence why people or situations in life might not be enough to stop from someone passing int his way.

I personally love connecting with spirits who have committed suicide because I can relate to their battle. And since I have accepted my own journey and tried to understand this from a spiritual level I feel that I am able to help both these spirits and their loved ones still in the living. Most of the time, spirits who have committed suicide can be reluctant to come through as there is a bit of ‘guilt’ and ‘resentment’ about the grief they have caused for their loved ones. This is where as a medium I come in and help with the grief and healing on both sides. However, your loved ones who have committed suicide are not a darker energy or bad entities, they are just like any other spirit who may have passed of an illness for example. Suicide spirits just need to be treated with a bit more kindness and made to feel comfortable to explain their story and explain their healing journey.

I’m no expert, this is just my understanding or belief at this stage, but I really want to change the view on how suicide is viewed. I know it hurts and I can’t begin to explain how sorry I am if you have to experience losing a loved one in this way, however, I hope that you can help them on their healing journey by forgiving them and allowing them to share their story with you. It’s not going to bring them back, but it’s going to help both you and them to clear the air and bring love back to the situation.
So, if you are someone who is contemplating taking your own life, please know I understand your journey and battle, and if this is something you choose to do, please know that there is no justice to face on the other side, however, if you can work through this pain you feel, you will feel much better for it, call upon spirit to help you.
On the other hand, my sincere apologies if you have lost a loved one due to suicide, and I hope that you can see that they are not any different to any other loved one in the spirit world, and I hope that one day you give yourself and them the opportunity to connect to help the healing process.

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