You see, 2014 was a pretty big year for me. Earlier on that year I left my husband and decided to raise my two kids and follow my true path of helping others through the service of the spirit world as a Psychic Medium. My career was blossoming, but my love life was a string of failed relationships from tinder! I had given up all hope and motivation on love. I assumed that I wasn’t able to have a career and be happy in love.

It took a while but after that weekend workshop I learnt that I had to make my life about me. Learn to love me and how I show up in the world. I had to let go of the fact that I had to be in a relationship to be happy, and that was massive for me! I had dated pretty much since I was 13 years old and probably hadn’t gone one month without being single.

So, one night with a glass of wine and watching the movie ‘Romeo and Juliet’ I went on to make my vision board. The career side was easy, I knew exactly what I wanted, but my personal life, no clue. I did put on a few pictures of a happy couple and some wedding bands in the hope of ‘wishful thinking’.

A couple of days later, I had a Reiki session with my healer Wendy and she told me about this past-life love that I had that was just like Romeo and Juliet ‘forbidden love’. I was shocked as I had only just watched that movie while making my vision board! She told me that this man couldn’t be too far away. This got me all excited and a few days went by and I decided to buy the rose quartz pendant from Monique’s website.

By this time, I was really enjoying being on my own. I had let go of the ‘need’ to be in a relationship and was looking forward to being single and really focusing on growing my business and spending time with the kids. Sure, the days I didn’t have my children were lonely, but I made the most out of learning to love to be on my own.

When Monique’s pendant arrived, I set my intention that this was going to bring me a loving relationship, the man I was destined to be with and put it on straight away. I wore it for about three weeks before everything changed for me. During this time I was meditating every day and in a few of my meditations the spirit world kept showing me that I was in a relationship with a tall man around Christmas. I could never see his face but I knew it was for me as he was holding my son. I even did some guided writing with the spirit world letting me know of this man’s arrival soon and that he was going to be the one I had been waiting for.

I justified it to myself that I had until around Christmas 2015 before love was coming my way, and liked the idea of this new found freedom knowing that the spirit world was going to bring this man to me.

But boy was the spirit world not kidding when they said soon! It was in December that Chris joined facebook. Chris and I had met through a mutual friend but never really had much to do with each other. We added each other as friends on facebook as you do, and we began chatting. Chris was into music and had made a CD for me, so I asked him if he would make me another one for some summer tunes. We went out for lunch and talked about life and what are dreams were for 2015. Things carried on like that for a few weeks, we’d text each other, and then we’d catch up.

Christmas was hard for me, as it was the first time I was actually on my own for Christmas morning with both my children being with their dads and so Chris became my shoulder to cry on. My son’s birthday followed a few days later and the sheer realisation that these family gatherings were no longer going to be what we did really hit me! I wasn’t doubting having left my husband, it was more for my children and the fact that I had broken up their family that was hard. So, who was my shoulder to cry on….Chris. He was there every time and was someone I could confined in and trust.

Naturally, we started texting everyday day and would spend more and more time together, and as things do, I realised that I was starting to really fall for him. Could he be the one from my meditations and guided writing? Could this stuff really work this fast? I fully believe in the power of law and attraction and have full faith in the spirit world, but this soon?!

Well, fast-forward nearly a year later, and Chris and I are happily in love living together with plans of one day adding to this already pre-maid family. Will we get married, well, I did put the wedding bands on the vision board, so I’ll leave that part up to him.

Do I believe that the rose quartz brought him to me….ABSOLUTELY! Not because it was rose quarts, but because of the intention I put with it before I put it on. I believe it was divine timing for me to be at that workshop, to meet Monique and to let go of my lack of self-love. I learnt to love myself fully and therefore Chris is able to love me to that same extent. I even have ‘love’ tattoo on the side of my wrist as a reminder of that. It was all perfect divine intervention from the spirit world. I really don’t think I would be where I am today if those stars hadn’t aligned!

I believe in law of attraction and that the spirit world gives us guidance when we are open to it. I often joke with Chris that I’m a little mad at him for coming into my life so soon and that I was really looking forward to being single in 2015, but he has enriched my life, my kids’ lives and my work. He has made me a better Psychic Medium because of the love and respect he shows me and this is reflected in my work. No longer do I believe that I have to choose between being of service or having love. I know that I deserve to have both and I am eternally grateful to the love that Monique put into making this special pendant for me to make this all happen.

This isn’t how I imagined my fairytale would be, but I wouldn’t change a thing.

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