I got to meet baby J’s parents who have given me permission to share this experience with you.

Baby J passed just over half way his gestation and didn’t get the opportunity to take a breath of life.

He came in very quickly to me about how warm it was to be held by his parents and how loved he felt by them when he did enter the world. He let us know how he wanted to experience the love from them as his parents and that he will come back as a grandchild for them.

We had a beautiful connection full of tears and laughter with baby J and that in itself is a beautiful gift, but baby J didn’t want to stop there.

He wanted to give his parents the opportunity to feel him and his love for them and so he got me to do a spirit hug for them.

Bare in mind, I’ve never done a spirit hug from a baby before and I really didn’t know how this was going to go.

I fully trusted baby J and his guidance.

With dad he told me that he would be on Dad’s left shoulder, I let him know that and as we did the hug, I let baby J rest on dads left shoulder. All I had to do was hold the energy for them to have this experience. Dad enjoyed his cuddle with baby J very much.

With mum he told me to place him in his mother’s hands so she could bring him up to her chest. Once again, I’d never done anything like this before, but baby J told me to trust in the process and all I had to do was hold the space. So I let mum know, and I leaned forward and placed him in his mother’s hands, it took a few moments, but she felt his warm energy and brought him to her chest and was able to hug him once more.

It was very special, and we all hugged each other with tears and the incredible miracle that baby J was able to create for his mummy and daddy.

I’m so grateful for baby J and guiding his parents to me and allowing spirit hugs to be experienced to a whole new level now for parents who have babies in spirit.

I’ll cherish this experience in my heart forever 

Melissa xx
Bringing mediumship into the everyday homes, the everyday hearts and everyday conversations

Now… for anyone that knows me, knows that I have a MASSIVE and I mean MASSIVE fear of birds (all originates because I was hung in a past-life and pecked out without being quite dead!).

Anyway as I was doing the normal connecting with members of her family, dog etc… she asked if there was anything else there and I couldn’t see the parrot (but that’s because I wouldn’t open myself up to that), so when I asked her who she wanted to connect with it really put me out of my comfort zone completely.

I put my fear aside and was able to connect to the beautiful parrot and the relationship that they had, his behaviours etc… I could even feel him nudging her head as he would sit on her shoulder (by that time the cold sweats were coming on). She was so moved by the experience and was able to finally grieve his loss.

It definitely was an experience, and a true test of my mediumship, because mediumship isn’t about me, it’s about those in the afterlife being able to communicate with you. A connection had to happen, whether I was shit scared or not of the bird! I’m glad I was able to hold it together for this beautiful client.

I can’t say I’m in hurry to connect with more birds, but at least I know I can somehow handle this fear through mediumship.

Never a boring day in the office, that’s for sure!