The experience of the spirit hug was so powerful that she wanted to give that to her son too, and of course, I was willing to give it a go.

I got to meet baby J’s parents who have given me permission to share this experience with you.

Baby J passed just over half way his gestation and didn’t get the opportunity to take a breath of life.

He came in very quickly to me about how warm it was to be held by his parents and how loved he felt by them when he did enter the world. He let us know how he wanted to experience the love from them as his parents and that he will come back as a grandchild for them.

We had a beautiful connection full of tears and laughter with baby J and that in itself is a beautiful gift, but baby J didn’t want to stop there.

He wanted to give his parents the opportunity to feel him and his love for them and so he got me to do a spirit hug for them.

Bare in mind, I’ve never done a spirit hug from a baby before and I really didn’t know how this was going to go.

I fully trusted baby J and his guidance.

With dad he told me that he would be on Dad’s left shoulder, I let him know that and as we did the hug, I let baby J rest on dads left shoulder. All I had to do was hold the energy for them to have this experience. Dad enjoyed his cuddle with baby J very much.

With mum he told me to place him in his mother’s hands so she could bring him up to her chest. Once again, I’d never done anything like this before, but baby J told me to trust in the process and all I had to do was hold the space. So I let mum know, and I leaned forward and placed him in his mother’s hands, it took a few moments, but she felt his warm energy and brought him to her chest and was able to hug him once more.

It was very special, and we all hugged each other with tears and the incredible miracle that baby J was able to create for his mummy and daddy.

I’m so grateful for baby J and guiding his parents to me and allowing spirit hugs to be experienced to a whole new level now for parents who have babies in spirit.

I’ll cherish this experience in my heart forever 

Melissa xx
Bringing mediumship into the everyday homes, the everyday hearts and everyday conversations

What are you supposed to look for in terms of signs?
– Dream visitations
– Smelling their scent/perfume
– Feeling their presence
– Music (such as their song playing, or a song you associate with them)
– Feathers
– Coins
– Rainbows
– Numbers (such as anniversaries etc…)
– Animals (such as butterflies, birds etc…)
– Electrical activity (lights flashing, TV turning on etc…)

Not sure how to make sense of these signs or what they even mean?
Then I would love to help you.

When I was 18 years old, I was told that I could communicate with spirit. I’d been doing it my whole life really, and after many years of extensive training I have learnt to master the art of communicating with spirit.
I am now bringing mediumship to the modern day times to become something that is acceptable to seek and be a part of. It truly is a beautiful experience, as well as bringing so much comfort, support, healing and love.

Over the years, I have communicated with thousands of loved ones in spirit through my work – whether it be in personal readings or live demonstrations with my Whispers from Above shows.

The connection with your loved ones is priceless and I feel very blessed to be able to offer this ability to you. It is such an honour to be present with you and your loved ones, passing on the messages you wish to share with each other.

If you are yet to experience this connection I urge you to listen to that calling inside of you and allow me to be the translator for you and your loved ones in spirit.

You may wish to book yourself a reading or come along to my live shows.

Wishing you so much love
Melissa Mills xx
NZs Modern Medium

When life throws you opportunities (even unexpected or unrealistic ones), it’s important for you to jump and allow the universe to provide for you. Whether this be for your personal growth, relationships, career, health, adventures and so on.

It doesn’t matter if you have no idea how you will make it happen, what it’s going to bring you or what path it will lead you on. The important thing is that you commit and allow the universe to do it’s thing!

Be in a state of ALLOWING and RECEIVING

Start saying ‘YES’ to love.

Start saying ‘YES’ to happiness.

Start saying ‘YES’ to abundance.

We all have many goals and ambitions in life which we should aim to achieve, however, it’s about releasing the timing and outcomes of all these goals and ambitions. To truly surrender your spirit to everything coming to you in divine timing when it is for the highest good of all involved.

So are you at risk of future tripping your life?

Do you often hear yourself say?

“When I have … I’ll do …”

“I’ll be happy when I have …”

“I can’t do … until…”

If that’s you, you are currently in a state of controlling an outcome or desire. You are future tripping the rest of your life. Which means you’ll miss out, be left behind, or learn the lesson the hard way.

I’ve been there and it’s a lesson I am currently going through, as well as the many clients I see. So you are definitely not alone.

Take a breath and surrender it all. The fear, the doubt, the stress, the anger, the guilt, the resentment, the control. Let it go. It is not serving you or the people around you.

Meditate, pray or journal about what you’re feeling and why you’re putting a big fat ‘BLOCK’ on your life.

The beauty is, when you become aware that you are future tripping your life you can change your state of being and that is the most freeing thing you can do for yourself and those around you.

Your AMAZINGLY BEAUTIFUL life awaits you when you start saying ‘YES’.

May you see the miracle in the lessons you are currently in.

Lots of love
Melissa Mills xx
Psychic Medium
“Empowering individuals to abundantly live on purpose”

Feeling stuck?

If this sounds familiar, then you are keeping yourself there.

I have seen so many of my clients lately who are saying “I feel so lost”.

I sympathies, I have been there many times, it’s not a very pleasant place to be if we keep that outlook of being ‘lost’ or ‘stuck’.

Instead, I have been getting my clients to change the story to ‘I am in transition’. As soon as they say that, their whole face lights up and their energy is completely different.

Everything we say either out loud or in our minds we create.

Instead of looking at things from the fear based perspective of “I am lost/stuck”, look at it from the love based perspective of “I am in transition”.

While doing a reading with a client today, spirit guided me to get her to use this affirmation, it was so good I had to write it down and share it with you:

“This is the transition I need to propel me to my abundance.”

Saying this I already feel the weight lifted and the support from spirit and the universe.

I hope this helps you and that you can start to see the miracles within this transition you are currently in.

Many blessings and love
Melissa Mills xx
Psychic Medium
“Empowering individuals to abundantly live on purpose”

In a reading with a client today towards the end of a connection with her granddad, he handed her a yellow rose.

I thought, hmm that’s nice…then the flood gates opened and I was really unsure why.

She told me that her granddad would let her know it was him or that things are worth going for if she saw the yellow rose.

You can only imagine how incredible that felt for me to give her that validation.

Your loved ones in spirit never cease to amaze me. I feel so truly blessed to work as a medium.

Thank you spirit for this beautiful validation of life after death.

Lots of love
Melissa Mills xx
NZs Modern Medium

Now… for anyone that knows me, knows that I have a MASSIVE and I mean MASSIVE fear of birds (all originates because I was hung in a past-life and pecked out without being quite dead!).

Anyway as I was doing the normal connecting with members of her family, dog etc… she asked if there was anything else there and I couldn’t see the parrot (but that’s because I wouldn’t open myself up to that), so when I asked her who she wanted to connect with it really put me out of my comfort zone completely.

I put my fear aside and was able to connect to the beautiful parrot and the relationship that they had, his behaviours etc… I could even feel him nudging her head as he would sit on her shoulder (by that time the cold sweats were coming on). She was so moved by the experience and was able to finally grieve his loss.

It definitely was an experience, and a true test of my mediumship, because mediumship isn’t about me, it’s about those in the afterlife being able to communicate with you. A connection had to happen, whether I was shit scared or not of the bird! I’m glad I was able to hold it together for this beautiful client.

I can’t say I’m in hurry to connect with more birds, but at least I know I can somehow handle this fear through mediumship.

Never a boring day in the office, that’s for sure!

Last night I had the absolute pleasure of attending an evening with Oprah – her NZ live show in Auckland.  I am now able to tick another thing off my vision board.

What an absolute gift it was to be in the presence of such transformational greatness.

The whole experience feels so divinely intervened – from meeting beautiful souls in the queue for future business opportunities in Christchurch to meeting a fellow psychic medium (from my area) in the carpark with the hour long wait from being on the top level.

From the moment Oprah stepped on the stage till the moment she left I was captivated by her every word which rings true in every part of my being.

I want to share with you my biggest ‘take-away’ moments because one of my values is ‘when we share wisdom we transform mankind’.

1. You are your legacy
This means that every encounter you have whether it be in person to something you have shared on a social media platform has the ability to change someones life. You are your legacy, not your ‘success’, but every person you have touched in some way and the impact that has had on them. This could be right down to smiling and saying thank you to the delivery man who brings your courier, making him feel appreciated. Use your words and gestures to send out love and that will be what people will remember you for.

2. Your life is an offering to the world
This is all about us being spiritual beings having a human experience and no matter how you came into the world that YOUR LIFE MATTERS.
How will you make a difference to this world? Your life’s purpose is doing something you are truly passionate about and no one should tell you what can or cannot be achieved. You are an asset to this world and even if you are the pebble in the water, you will create ripples.
When you come from a place of service then complete abundance comes your way.

3. Authentically empower others
Who you are is amazing and you should not try to become anyone else. Your personality is your biggest asset. It is the reflection of your soul. By being yourself, you allow yourself to be fully present in your life and for those around you. The more of yourself you reveal to the world, the more you empower it.
Move away from wanting to be like someone or have the life that someone else has. You are unique and deserve your version of a great life.

4. Intention is everything
What we put out comes back to us. Our life is a mirror of your thoughts (conscious and subconscious), so be mindful of your intention towards people and situations. You co-create your life with the intention and energy that you bring to a space.
If you believe life is struggle, then this will show up in your life daily. If you believe that you are prosperous then this will show up in your daily life.
Be mindful of the energy you bring into your life and your space as this will affect the intention you have for your life.

5. Turmoil builds strength
There is no life, without a spiritual life, therefore your unhappiness is a reflection of the disconnection to the self.
When you are in moments of absolute struggle with no end in sight, this is actually a good thing, because it is your own divine guidance steering you in the direction that is more aligned to your path. You have to surrender to the attachment of the outcome and allow for the universe to do its thing.
The hard times is what builds our strength and resilience. The more strength we build the more power we tend to have over our lives.

6. Gratitude
Gratitude is the key to happiness and success. It is important to reflect on what you have in your life and appreciate that. The more gratitude you show in your life the more abundance can be on display for you.
Make time to show gratitude to others around you and see how it comes back to you. It is suggested to have a gratitude journal to write down what you are thankful for. Start being more thankful and see how the universe shows up for you.

I want to leave you with a quote that I will be adapting for myself from now on from a poem Oprah used to read as a little girl.

“I am the master of my fate
I am the captain of my soul”

In the video she talked about how she wasn’t here to create disciples but she was here to create teachers, and I truly resonate with that message.

I’ve always said in all my classes or workshops that I want to impart as much knowledge as I can onto them as it really is no point me having it all to myself. I’m only one person, and if we can have more of us sharing the love and messages from the spirit world and universe then we are creating more good for humanity.

I believe there is enough for everybody and I don’t ever look at myself in competition with anyone or being better than anybody else. I believe in my ability and continue to develop it with teachers who I believe can continue to grow my ability to connect to the spirit world. By doing so, I can then impart my knowledge and ability for those who seek me out or need me.

I love seeing people shine and finding their purpose in life and that brings me so much joy. If I can help one person everyday then I know I have done my part as a lightworker.

However there are only so many hours in one day and I also have to put time and energy into my family and friends, so I have to impart my knowledge. I have to share what I have been taught by these AMAZING teachers in the hope that they will too share their knowledge and ability with those around them.

So the message is about helping you.
It’s about being able to touch your heart.
It’s about making you know that you are loved and supported.
It’s about aligning you with your life’s purpose.

The message isn’t about about me.
It’s not about money or fame.
It’s about how can I create more love, acceptance, peace and healing for people in this world.
The message is about understanding that the universe and the spirit world is here to help us all lead meaningful and abundant lives.
So the more teachers we have spreading this message, then hopefully the happier our world will become.

So as Gabrielle Bernstein said “I’m not here to create disciples, I’m here to create teachers.”

My mum had recommended a Psychic, so I booked my appointment and my mum drove me.  I went into her house and sat down at her dinner room table.  She seemed friendly enough and had a whole bunch of cards on the side of the table.
I really had no idea of any process or what to expect, as the only other readings I had ever had were in the University Library by my friend.

She asked me to shuffle the cards, and to think about the kind of guidance I wanted.  Once I had chosen a pack that I wanted she laid them out and started to pass on information to me.  I can’t exactly remember all of it.  But she did confirm that my relationship was going to end, and that I was going to move back home with my mum and that I was going to be fine.  That I would have some financial support and be taken care of.   What a reassurance that was.  I knew then, that even though the next part of my life wasn’t going to be easy, that I was going to make it alright.

She got me to use another deck of cards and to do the same thing.  Once I had picked a pack I wanted she went on to read for me again.  This was many years ago now and it was not taped or written down, so I really can’t remember too much.  She did go on about how I needed to be a reader and that I would eventually be known at an international level.  At the time I was like … “whatever!”

I’m sure we did this process one more time and my hour appointment I’m sure lasted one and a half hours!  I’m pretty sure she felt sorry for me being so young and having to make such big decisions.  She didn’t make any of the decisions for me, but she was very blunt with what she saw for me.  I took her word for it as she was able to tell me things about my relationship and my life that there would have been no way she would have known.

It really was an amazing experience, and I do believe it changed my life.  When I was at this major crossroad and completely lost she gave me the light and inspiration I needed about my life.

Since that reading I had gone to her two more times, and have now had several readings from other Psychic Mediums.  Of course I can do this for myself, but I like to sit in the chair, and like everyone I want to know what is ahead for me.

I would love for you to share your first ever psychic reading experience.