You see, 2014 was a pretty big year for me. Earlier on that year I left my husband and decided to raise my two kids and follow my true path of helping others through the service of the spirit world as a Psychic Medium. My career was blossoming, but my love life was a string of failed relationships from tinder! I had given up all hope and motivation on love. I assumed that I wasn’t able to have a career and be happy in love.

It took a while but after that weekend workshop I learnt that I had to make my life about me. Learn to love me and how I show up in the world. I had to let go of the fact that I had to be in a relationship to be happy, and that was massive for me! I had dated pretty much since I was 13 years old and probably hadn’t gone one month without being single.

So, one night with a glass of wine and watching the movie ‘Romeo and Juliet’ I went on to make my vision board. The career side was easy, I knew exactly what I wanted, but my personal life, no clue. I did put on a few pictures of a happy couple and some wedding bands in the hope of ‘wishful thinking’.

A couple of days later, I had a Reiki session with my healer Wendy and she told me about this past-life love that I had that was just like Romeo and Juliet ‘forbidden love’. I was shocked as I had only just watched that movie while making my vision board! She told me that this man couldn’t be too far away. This got me all excited and a few days went by and I decided to buy the rose quartz pendant from Monique’s website.

By this time, I was really enjoying being on my own. I had let go of the ‘need’ to be in a relationship and was looking forward to being single and really focusing on growing my business and spending time with the kids. Sure, the days I didn’t have my children were lonely, but I made the most out of learning to love to be on my own.

When Monique’s pendant arrived, I set my intention that this was going to bring me a loving relationship, the man I was destined to be with and put it on straight away. I wore it for about three weeks before everything changed for me. During this time I was meditating every day and in a few of my meditations the spirit world kept showing me that I was in a relationship with a tall man around Christmas. I could never see his face but I knew it was for me as he was holding my son. I even did some guided writing with the spirit world letting me know of this man’s arrival soon and that he was going to be the one I had been waiting for.

I justified it to myself that I had until around Christmas 2015 before love was coming my way, and liked the idea of this new found freedom knowing that the spirit world was going to bring this man to me.

But boy was the spirit world not kidding when they said soon! It was in December that Chris joined facebook. Chris and I had met through a mutual friend but never really had much to do with each other. We added each other as friends on facebook as you do, and we began chatting. Chris was into music and had made a CD for me, so I asked him if he would make me another one for some summer tunes. We went out for lunch and talked about life and what are dreams were for 2015. Things carried on like that for a few weeks, we’d text each other, and then we’d catch up.

Christmas was hard for me, as it was the first time I was actually on my own for Christmas morning with both my children being with their dads and so Chris became my shoulder to cry on. My son’s birthday followed a few days later and the sheer realisation that these family gatherings were no longer going to be what we did really hit me! I wasn’t doubting having left my husband, it was more for my children and the fact that I had broken up their family that was hard. So, who was my shoulder to cry on….Chris. He was there every time and was someone I could confined in and trust.

Naturally, we started texting everyday day and would spend more and more time together, and as things do, I realised that I was starting to really fall for him. Could he be the one from my meditations and guided writing? Could this stuff really work this fast? I fully believe in the power of law and attraction and have full faith in the spirit world, but this soon?!

Well, fast-forward nearly a year later, and Chris and I are happily in love living together with plans of one day adding to this already pre-maid family. Will we get married, well, I did put the wedding bands on the vision board, so I’ll leave that part up to him.

Do I believe that the rose quartz brought him to me….ABSOLUTELY! Not because it was rose quarts, but because of the intention I put with it before I put it on. I believe it was divine timing for me to be at that workshop, to meet Monique and to let go of my lack of self-love. I learnt to love myself fully and therefore Chris is able to love me to that same extent. I even have ‘love’ tattoo on the side of my wrist as a reminder of that. It was all perfect divine intervention from the spirit world. I really don’t think I would be where I am today if those stars hadn’t aligned!

I believe in law of attraction and that the spirit world gives us guidance when we are open to it. I often joke with Chris that I’m a little mad at him for coming into my life so soon and that I was really looking forward to being single in 2015, but he has enriched my life, my kids’ lives and my work. He has made me a better Psychic Medium because of the love and respect he shows me and this is reflected in my work. No longer do I believe that I have to choose between being of service or having love. I know that I deserve to have both and I am eternally grateful to the love that Monique put into making this special pendant for me to make this all happen.

This isn’t how I imagined my fairytale would be, but I wouldn’t change a thing.

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I have to be honest and say that I used to think that spirits who had committed suicide where a darker energy to work with, however, I have very much changed my thoughts on this. Here is my public apology to anyone I may have offended with these previous comments and I hope that one day you connect with your loved ones.

So, here is what I believe, at the end of the day we are all going to pass. It’s the only thing guaranteed in life, the big question is how?

We all hope to pass by being asleep in our beds and drifting to the spirit world, however, that kind of passing is really not an option for a majority of people.
So what is so different about a suicide.
I have to touch on my personal experience on this one about my own journey and of those I have had the pleasure of meeting on the other side.

First I want to clear something up, suicide is not a selfish act, it is just another form of passing that is sudden or unexpected, just the same as a car accident. I don’t believe that there is a major difference between passing in an accident or taking matters into your own hands when it comes to how you will be welcomed or treated in the spirit world. The only difference is the healing journey in spirit is different, and suicides I do believe need more healing that someone who has had an accident for example.

So, why do people feel the need to take their own life. I can’t speak for everyone, but if I look at my own battle, it’s because life just gets so hard and there is that longing to be back to a place of peace and love. I want to approach this from a spiritual point of view. I think that people who have a battle with suicide, are rather sensitive souls, and they feel energies of people and the earth more than others may. On a subconscious level, I believe that these people have a clear recollection of what the spirit world is like and have a drawing to go back there. Life on Earth feels very heavy and complicated, and the soul has this pulling to be back ‘home’. I can honestly say that when I get myself in one of my episodes that there is nothing that makes me want to stay, it doesn’t matter about my kids or anything else of significance of my life, I just want to go. I have had many close calls, but for some reason it’s not quite my time and spirit always seems to intervene. It really is the only thing that stops me.

It can be hard for you to understand this concept if you yourself have never had suicidal thoughts, and I understand that it can be hard to comprehend that even the thought of leaving your kids behind to take your own life isn’t enough to stop someone from doing this. However, this is the reality of it. I do believe that these suicidal thoughts do not come from a conscious level, but more from a subconscious level, hence why people or situations in life might not be enough to stop from someone passing int his way.

I personally love connecting with spirits who have committed suicide because I can relate to their battle. And since I have accepted my own journey and tried to understand this from a spiritual level I feel that I am able to help both these spirits and their loved ones still in the living. Most of the time, spirits who have committed suicide can be reluctant to come through as there is a bit of ‘guilt’ and ‘resentment’ about the grief they have caused for their loved ones. This is where as a medium I come in and help with the grief and healing on both sides. However, your loved ones who have committed suicide are not a darker energy or bad entities, they are just like any other spirit who may have passed of an illness for example. Suicide spirits just need to be treated with a bit more kindness and made to feel comfortable to explain their story and explain their healing journey.

I’m no expert, this is just my understanding or belief at this stage, but I really want to change the view on how suicide is viewed. I know it hurts and I can’t begin to explain how sorry I am if you have to experience losing a loved one in this way, however, I hope that you can help them on their healing journey by forgiving them and allowing them to share their story with you. It’s not going to bring them back, but it’s going to help both you and them to clear the air and bring love back to the situation.
So, if you are someone who is contemplating taking your own life, please know I understand your journey and battle, and if this is something you choose to do, please know that there is no justice to face on the other side, however, if you can work through this pain you feel, you will feel much better for it, call upon spirit to help you.
On the other hand, my sincere apologies if you have lost a loved one due to suicide, and I hope that you can see that they are not any different to any other loved one in the spirit world, and I hope that one day you give yourself and them the opportunity to connect to help the healing process.

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Is it really the end? Do we cease to exist?

These are some of the many questions I get asked as a medium, and I would love to share what I believe happens when we die.

I look at death as a celebration, like a graduation ceremony that all your hard learning and lessons you have experienced over the course of your life has now paid off and you get to enter the next stage of your evolution.
I believe that your physical body is a vessel that allows you to experience life here on Earth, and that it houses your soul for you to have a human experience. The body itself is made up of a whole bunch of particles, just like the couch I am lying on as a type this. It is dense and heavy and cannot travel to any other dimensions. I believe the soul is eternal and ever lasting, and that in order for it to grow it has to experience life on different levels, and Earth being one of the planes to do so. So yes, I believe in reincarnation.

So, what happens when we die? I don’t believe the way we die changes necessarily the process of what happens, so I will talk about death in the general manner of whether you are 1 day old to 135 years old.

We get assigned our physical body and our soul travel to this body during the gestation period and fully merges with the physical body once the baby is born. From that moment your soul doesn’t leave your body until you die (unless you are astral travelling). So I believe that there is a cord that connects our physical body to our soul and when we die that cord is cut, and our soul goes into the spirit world (afterlife) and that part of us that dies is the physical body. You as a being are still there, you are now a form of energy and the only thing you are missing out on is the physical aspect of life, but you are there enjoying every aspect with your family and friends in an etheric body (energy).

All your memories and lessons you experienced are housed in your soul, and this includes all of the lifetimes you’ve had.

What’s beautiful is when we die, we are never alone, our family and friends all gather close and help us through the process, I believe this is the case even with an unexpected death of some sort (accident, murder, suicide etc…) the spirit people that belong to you know, and they begin to gather close, so by the time your soul cuts the cord to your physical body you are greeted by them. It brings me great comfort to know this.

Now when I have a client in-front of me or doing a demonstration the souls I bring through aren’t actually in spirit as their physical body. What happens is that they manifest as their physical body because that is how we recognise them. So when I describe what someone looks like, it’s not really what they look like in the spirit world, but they create themselves in that way because that is how we would recognise them. They do not need a physical body, the afterlife is not a dense place here like it is on earth. They are not restricted and confined to a physical body so they can be in several different places at the same time.

It is important for me as a medium to depict to you what your loved ones look like and how they are doing now that they are in spirit. They will refer to their physical attributes, but what’s beautiful is if your loved lost a limb or goodness forbid more than that, because your soul is not physical, when you are in the spirit world you have all of that back. So I will say something like “when they were living they are showing me that they lost their leg in a car accident, and now in the spirit world they would like me to tell you that they have that leg again and are now running” something along those lines depending on what it is they choose to pass on.

So I hope that kind of makes sense, and that it gives you a bit of an understanding of what may happen – of course nothing is certain, but this is my personal experience from the thousands of souls I’ve connected with.

What are you thoughts about what happens to us after we die?

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