You are and always will be the co-creator along with source of your life.
What you need to get clear on is everything in your life right now has been delivered from the Universe from YOUR response about how you feel.
Your feelings is what the Universe recieves and brings you more of, and that is how you co-create your experiences.
You cannot co-create abundance if you are feeling in lack. Even if you are truly abundant and you feel in lack, you’ll receive more experiences in your life that will keep you feeling in that lack.
The law of the Universe is simple, it responds to YOUR EMOTIONS and that is how law of attraction works.
No matter what you believe your physical reality to be, the Universe keeps bringing you more of what you feel.
This is why getting into your hot chocolate with marshmallow moments state is of the most importance when you are aware that you feel anything other than joy, abundance and love.
Your hot chocolate with marshmallow moments are those memories, experiences and things which evoke an instant sense of joy, love and abundance. When you think of these moments your whole body feels good, inside and out and you feel giddy with a big smile on your face.
Having a few of these moments in the reference bank that you can pull out at anytime will make a significant difference in the life you co-create with source.
We all want to live our dream lives and we all can, when we master the art choosing our emotions in response to life’s experiences.
Happiness and joy is a state in which you feel gratitude, appreciation and the expansion of love for the very moment/s you are experiencing.
You do not need to EVER justify your happiness or withhold it from anyone.
That’s right, no matter what is showing up in your life, you have the choice to choose experiencing happiness even if you have been taught or made to feel that you need to feel something else.
Never ever sacrifice experiencing happiness because others around you aren’t.
Even if you have to think of your hot chocolate moments all day long to experience happiness because maybe life isn’t feeling happy then do so!
The wonderful thing with happiness is that it’s yours.
When you rise, so do others. When you experience happiness, you give others the opportunity to experience it too.
Choose your happiness above anything else.
The experience of the spirit hug was so powerful that she wanted to give that to her son too, and of course, I was willing to give it a go.
At just 6 months old baby H is so adorable and a true mixture of his mummy and daddy.
The reading of course was full of visits from family admiring and dotting over baby H and giving mummy lots of love and support.
Towards the middle of the reading baby H was starting to get a bit restless, so I decided to hold him and allow daddy to come through as I do when I do the spirit hugs, and instantly baby H settled as I rocked side to side letting his daddy soothe him. I really felt like I wanted to hum which was something daddy used to do.
When it came to the true moment of the spirit hug, this is what truly blew me away.
I decided to stand, since that seemed to work last time, and ask daddy to come once again. Baby H dropped his toy and started to settle once again and was touching my face and cuddled into me – which of course was his daddy. I can’t put it into words, just how amazing that was for everyone of us to experience 
I, of course wanted to give mummy another experience of a spirit hug so she put baby H on her lap and I let him come through again, giving him a moment to take in his beautiful family. He wanted to put his hand on Baby H’s foot and once again Baby H dropped his toy and put his hand on mine reaching for his dad. I allowed him to hug them both and it was just a beautiful experience – no one wanting it to ever end 
What an honour it was to give daddy the opportunity to hold his son again… it’s touched my heart so much that we can co-create these connections together.
Baby H and his mummy hold a special place in my heart and I look forward to sharing more in their journey in years to come.
Everyday with experiences like this we are bringing mediumship into the everyday homes, the everyday hearts and everyday conversations.
I got to meet baby J’s parents who have given me permission to share this experience with you.
Baby J passed just over half way his gestation and didn’t get the opportunity to take a breath of life.
He came in very quickly to me about how warm it was to be held by his parents and how loved he felt by them when he did enter the world. He let us know how he wanted to experience the love from them as his parents and that he will come back as a grandchild for them.
We had a beautiful connection full of tears and laughter with baby J and that in itself is a beautiful gift, but baby J didn’t want to stop there.
He wanted to give his parents the opportunity to feel him and his love for them and so he got me to do a spirit hug for them.
Bare in mind, I’ve never done a spirit hug from a baby before and I really didn’t know how this was going to go.
I fully trusted baby J and his guidance.
With dad he told me that he would be on Dad’s left shoulder, I let him know that and as we did the hug, I let baby J rest on dads left shoulder. All I had to do was hold the energy for them to have this experience. Dad enjoyed his cuddle with baby J very much.
With mum he told me to place him in his mother’s hands so she could bring him up to her chest. Once again, I’d never done anything like this before, but baby J told me to trust in the process and all I had to do was hold the space. So I let mum know, and I leaned forward and placed him in his mother’s hands, it took a few moments, but she felt his warm energy and brought him to her chest and was able to hug him once more.
It was very special, and we all hugged each other with tears and the incredible miracle that baby J was able to create for his mummy and daddy.
I’m so grateful for baby J and guiding his parents to me and allowing spirit hugs to be experienced to a whole new level now for parents who have babies in spirit.
I’ll cherish this experience in my heart forever 
Melissa xx
Bringing mediumship into the everyday homes, the everyday hearts and everyday conversations
My answer to YOU is YES!
What are you supposed to look for in terms of signs?
– Dream visitations
– Smelling their scent/perfume
– Feeling their presence
– Music (such as their song playing, or a song you associate with them)
– Feathers
– Coins
– Rainbows
– Numbers (such as anniversaries etc…)
– Animals (such as butterflies, birds etc…)
– Electrical activity (lights flashing, TV turning on etc…)
Not sure how to make sense of these signs or what they even mean?
Then I would love to help you.
When I was 18 years old, I was told that I could communicate with spirit. I’d been doing it my whole life really, and after many years of extensive training I have learnt to master the art of communicating with spirit.
I am now bringing mediumship to the modern day times to become something that is acceptable to seek and be a part of. It truly is a beautiful experience, as well as bringing so much comfort, support, healing and love.
Over the years, I have communicated with thousands of loved ones in spirit through my work – whether it be in personal readings or live demonstrations with my Whispers from Above shows.
The connection with your loved ones is priceless and I feel very blessed to be able to offer this ability to you. It is such an honour to be present with you and your loved ones, passing on the messages you wish to share with each other.
If you are yet to experience this connection I urge you to listen to that calling inside of you and allow me to be the translator for you and your loved ones in spirit.
You may wish to book yourself a reading or come along to my live shows.
Wishing you so much love
Melissa Mills xx
NZs Modern Medium