I’m sure at some point we can all relate to that feeling of not knowing what to do, how things are going to get better or not knowing what our purpose is.  These feelings are all part of our human experience, and we must embrace it when we feel this way.  Why?  Because this feeling of being stuck or lost, is giving you a clear indication of what it is you don’t want in your life, and that is SUPER powerful.

There is great power in knowing what you don’t want.

If you never felt stuck or lost, how would you know what it is that you desire in your life?  We need these contrasts so we can get clear on what our dreams and desires are.  We can see the areas in our lives we want to evoke more joy in, even if we don’t yet know how we will go about it.   The beauty is, knowing how to get there isn’t even your job, it’s the Universes’ job.  You just need to be clear on the emotion you want to feel, and if you’re not sure what that is, ALWAYS aim to experience JOY.

The thing is, even when you feel stuck or lost, you aren’t.  Things are always in motion.  In this physical world the notion of time never stops, therefore you cannot be stuck.   Time is never standing still.  You can however have the same limiting belief, block or story that is keeping you in the same circumstances and that is why you feel stuck or even lost.

You are the only one who gets to write the narrative of your life.  You may have been influenced by others which have given momentum to lack, fear and sabotage and that’s why you feel this sense of stuckness.  But let me reassure you that you are free to live a life full of joy, abundance, hope and love.   It’s all up to you and no one else.

Your mind is the greatest tool you were given in this physical world, and the more you can get clear and honest about your thoughts, the less stuck or lost you will feel.   It’s perfectly fine not to want to stay living the way that you might currently be living.  There is nothing wrong with you wanting different outcomes, and wanting more for yourself and your life.  You must first acknowledge it, and then, you must show gratitude for what it is you have that is currently working for you.  The more you can focus on the good in your life, the less you will give momentum to the lack, fear and sabotage that has had you feeling stuck or lost.

I always say to my clients to start changing the languaging from “I feel stuck/lost” to “I am on my way to discovering what brings me joy”.  Now even though it may be the exact same feeling, doesn’t being in discovery feel better than being stuck?   Which one of those statements is more likely to get the outcome you want?

Adapting a Flip It Mindset, which is part of the Rise with Love Philosophy is crucial to you living your best life.  It simply means that you change your thought, your story and your languaging to be the positive version of what it is you want to feel.   The Universe is always responding to how you feel, so being in discovery is a gazillion times better than being in that suck or lost zone.

Even when you’re living your best life, you’ll still have moments when you feel stuck or lost.  However, it won’t ever be to the same extent of the big black hole that you would have felt in the past.  They will be the contrast you need to know what they next dream and desire is that you are seeking.  Remember knowing what you don’t want it SUPER powerful, and you’ll keep experiencing these contrasts throughout your life.  They are vital in you knowing what it is you want to manifest.

So I encourage you to embrace feeling stuck or lost, but I also encourage you to Flip It and go in the direction of choosing to be discovering what brings you joy.

Time is a human concept. Ultimately there is no such thing as time.  You do, however, have a choice as to how you spend your time here in this physical body, so make it a good one.

We are all interconnected as one.  We all come from source energy.  So in order to better understand who we are, we have to better understand each other.  There is a part of us in everyone. The more we connect with people from different cultures, ethnicity, ages, beliefs and so on, the more pieces of the puzzle you will fill in understanding who you are.

Each of us has something to teach and learn from one another.

This is why from the beginning of creation we have always wanted to seek, explore and discover beyond what is around us.

We have always known that in order to fully grasp who we are, we must see ourselves in each other.

Travelling will ALWAYS enrich your soul.  Whether you travel alone or with another doesn’t matter.  Your soul has a compass and it is constantly guiding you as to which lands will enrich your being the most at the stage of life you’re in.   That’s why you might suddenly see a destination pop up into your awareness (this could be on social media, a conversation, in an add etc…) and you instantly start imagining yourself there and what it would be like.  There are no coincidences, because this compass is always guiding you on the path to least resistance.  That path which will give you the very best human experience you can have here on Earth.

It doesn’t matter whether you have traveled there or not, as there are always new people and experiences to have.

It’s never about the destination, but rather about the journey.  Every step, every adventure is just as important.  There is no destination, because ultimately you will never stop seeking, because you never should stop wanting to enrich your being.

Explore beyond the luxury. Make a point of understanding the people and the rich heritage of the lands you wonder too.   Connect on that soul level, that energy that connects us all… LOVE.  Language will never be a barrier when you see yourself in another.  So much can be said with no words at all.

What ever lands you dream of exploring, do it.

You have so much more to gain in travelling than staying put.

Travelling is an enriching part of your human experience.

Seek

Explore

Discover

Source energy is an infinite stream of love, joy, wellness, abundance, beauty and peace.

There is no poverty, illness, ugliness, loneliness and hatred, these only show up because you are disallowing the stream of source to flow freely into your life.

In every moment you are either allowing  or disallowing source energy to create the life you want.

You are source energy, you are so powerful and you came here with all the creativity and freedom to live a life where you add to the expansion of the physical manifestation of that source energy.

Plain and simple you came here to play, create and have fun as you allow yourself to experience what you are – source energy, which is love, joy, abundance and peace.

If you ain’t experiencing all that high vibe, feel good stuff then you have to adapt the Flip It Mindset!

You are most likely manifesting, sending those rockets of desires, but somewhere along the way you’re contradicting it by focusing on the absence of it. And when you do that, you are disallowing that stream of infinite source energy to flow.

Get excited about your future, be eager for good things to unfold for you, have fun with the Universe as you ask for your desires to come into physical manifestation.

I want you to forget everything you’ve been told about having to work hard and all that jazz to have the life of your dreams. Working hard will DEFINITELY NOT  give you all that you are wanting.

Why? Because when you’re working hard your disallowing the flow of source energy. Hard is the opposite of ease, and the Universe ALWAYS delivers with ease. Rather, life needs to be measures by how much joy you’re having rather than how hard you are working.

Think of something you truly want. Now see yourself with it, experiencing it, feel how excited you are about having it and all the opportunities it now opens up because you have it. This is a Rocket of Desire you have sent to the Universe and all you have to do now is allow it to come into your life.

Everytime you think about it, think those thoughts, not, oh I don’t have this so my life sucks etc… That is what the Flip It Mindset is. Guiding your thoughts to allowing the Universe to deliver you the goods  .

Spoiler Alert!!!

If you want it, its yours.

So stop conjuring everything that makes you feel sad, angry, disappointed when you think about the absence of it. Dont even think about it as not there. It’s not absencent it’s here or on it’s way so keep being excited, eager and have fun imagining it in your life.

You can do all the affirmations, vision boards and mantras in the world, but to truly get your dreams and desires manifesting into physical reality, your emotions are  percent the key to it all.

Your emotions give you clues in every moment of what you want your life to be. You are either experiencing it or being reminded of what you want to experience.

Your emotions shape your life, THAT’S IT! Nothing else is going to do the job but your emotions. Your emotions are the direct signals being sent to the Universe saying ‘create more of this in my life’.

So, if you want to know what your future will be like, take a moment and feel into how you’re feeling right in this moment. If its anything other than joy, abundance and love and empowerment then you’re being reminded that you want to feel that to live your dream life.

When you think of your future, do you feel grateful, excited, inspired and eager?

If you don’t, then what kind of future are you creating?

Your emotions are how you manifest those things you want. For example if you want a new job, attach feelings of excitement, passion, and joy every time you think of it, see it advertised etc… If you attach feelings of lack, doubt and so on then that’s what your creating into your life.

So, make a point of checking in with yourself and feeling good, if you’re not, that’s ok, but do what ever you can to get yourself there if living your dream life is something you are striving for.

You deserve it all.

Then use the fresh energy of the new year to declutter your environment – your home and workspace.

This is a wonderful way to let go of what is no longer serving you, body, mind and soul.

When we hold on to things we energetically block abundance being able to flow freely in our lives. Ever seen an abundant hoarder?  Yea neither!

I encourage you to spend a few hours over a few days and go through each area of your physical environment and make a keep, give and throw pile.

I usually do a big sort out once a year, and if I haven’t used it in the year then its gone. So that’s how I choose what we keep and what we say sayionara to.

I do little declutters’ throughout the year to keep the energy flowing. I usually do so with the change of seasons.

What you’ll find is once you let go of things you don’t need, then you give opportunity for new things to enter.

It feels great to declutter, it will give you so much mental clarity too.

It’s amazing how much we have and hold on to and wonder why we feel crappy!

Give yourself the opportunity for expansion and get decluttering 

If you’ve been with me awhile, you know I want you to live your best life, so tonight I encourage you to take some time to co-create your year with the Universe 

Get a journal or pieces of paper and write down in the present tense dreams and desires you feel would make your life amazing. Anything from romantic relationships, friendships, career, health, living location, travel, hobbies, money etc…

You are and always will be the co-creator along with source of your life.

What you need to get clear on is everything in your life right now has been delivered from the Universe from YOUR response about how you feel.

The experience of the spirit hug was so powerful that she wanted to give that to her son too, and of course, I was willing to give it a go.

The thing is, there is never a right or wrong decision.

You’re going to make any decision either from a place of fear  or love .